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The most basic tenet of personal freedom, autonomy, and dignity is free choice over who we allow into our lives. Personalizing someone else's limits on time, energy, and so on is wild because that's forcing people to defend their ownership over what is under personal property. Trust is earned, the same way that proximity doesn't mean mental availability. Quality over quantity and your circle: YOUR choice. Embrace that trust is earned and anyone who is forceful and punitive towards your time limits which have nothing to do with them... is revealing that they want something from you and do not...

Kate Somerville's Friends and Family event is running Family & Friends Event running from April 1st - 12th, 2024! ✨ Say hello to smooth, rejuvenated skin!  Code: Family25 for 25% off sitewide! Skincare is my jam. And if there's one brand that's stolen my heart, it's gotta be Kate Somerville. Here's the lowdown on why I'm totally hooked:1. Nature + Science = Magic: You know that feeling when you find a skincare product that just works? Well, Kate Somerville has cracked the code. They mix up all these fancy science-y ingredients with natural goodness, and bam – your skin feels like...

In the pursuit of personal growth and fulfillment, there's a common misconception that stepping out of one's comfort zone is the ultimate goal. While venturing beyond familiar territory can indeed lead to valuable experiences and growth, it's equally important to recognize the distinction between honoring your needs, preferences, and rights versus simply staying within your comfort zone. We cannot disregard the importance of being responsible and glamourize adventure for the sake of it. I value a level of stability because my ADHD brain is a whole adventure on its own. Honoring your needs and preferences involves a deep understanding of...

In a world fixated on external achievements and material gains, it's easy to lose sight of where true fulfillment stems from. We often measure success by the possessions we accumulate, the accolades we receive, or the status we attain. However, in this pursuit of external validation, we may overlook the profound truth that fulfillment originates from within.At its core, fulfillment is a deeply personal experience, one that transcends the tangible markers of success. It is the sense of purpose, satisfaction, and contentment that arises when we align our actions with our values, passions, and innate desires. True fulfillment, therefore, is...

Confidently focusing on my priorities in life is only personalized by people with disdain for boundaries, I am not doing harm, evil, or bothering anyone or acting better than: I am managing my responsibilities and ensuring my life is fulfilling. I am not comparing myself either. I'm fiercely protective of the person I've become. It required significant mental, emotional, and spiritual effort to reach this point. So, if it seems like I hold myself to high standards with respect to what I partake in: be it people, situations, events, or conversations, it's because I do. I won't be fooled twice.