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Your "zone of focus" is full mental presence (being captivated by the task or moment at hand) similar mind-to-muscle connection when training, this is the time where you mentally recharge / aren't expected to be "on" or "performing" especially if too much socializing drains you. You can be neutral with demons, but please save your kindness and words for people who won't use it against you as soon as the opportunity arises. Be smart in this life. Who would want you worn down and tired? Only people who want to take from you and use you despite having made it...

As a business owner, you're going to get a lot of unwanted advice and unwanted offers for help. You have every right to reject those because rejection is part of life and those incapable of handling their feelings need to manage those issues in therapy, rather than project them on you.  🔥🔥🔥We follow people online, with mutual love, and we refrain from invading their lives as if people don't have real responsibilities... I know, how terrible that we don't deny ourselves the conditions to our ongoing survival for which we're responsible over what users want from us!🔥🔥🔥  I am not expected...

When someone feels insulted, offended, or targeted by a boundary, it often indicates that they were attempting to violate that boundary in the first place. Their negative reaction stems from the realization that their actions were not accepted or tolerated. The number one tenet of human dignity is choice over who we allow into our personal space and private lives! Some individuals may have a tendency to disregard or dismiss the boundaries of others due to a lack of respect or consideration for their autonomy and space. Certain individuals may feel threatened by boundaries because they perceive them as a...

Sneakily being pushy out of feigned ignorance is still pushy and consideration is reserved forthose who consider your autonomy, free will, and choice over matters belonging to your jurisdiction. Only neutrality is owed to intruders on any level. My private life is mine to own. Even pushing unwanted services, connections you don't have time for, or anything is a sign of someone with control issues that you have a right to say no to. Save your explanations for the deserving.  "Friends" do not tell people how to spend *their* limited spare time or hijack their vision/try to push them around....

Some will come to you with offers of unwanted help that they will try to convince you meets your needs when it doesn't and proceed to waste your limited attention span so audaciously if you let them. They won't tell you that there are invisible strings attached. Reasons why you should feel confident to freely refuse (they should be cognizant that "no" is a perfectly acceptable response as a free-willed autonomous being who isn't an extension of them): 1. Autonomy: Everyone has the right to make their own decisions, and refusing unwanted help is an exercise of that autonomy. You...