Defining Forgiveness

I think we all need to realize that it's possible to forgive people and also not have many or any future dealings with them. It's just about the energy of peace. You don't have to prove your forgiveness to anybody. You also don't have to re-expose yourself to them.

Clearing the air and forgetting is the opposite of forgiveness, forgiveness is just letting go of the hurt, but it's not letting go of the lessons and the air is already cleared whether or not they know it. Forgiveness is for you and not for them, forgiveness is not access either.

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Forgiveness is not:

Re-trust
Re-entry
Re-conciliation
Re-injury
Re-exposure

Guarding your heart isn't weak and you do not need to prove your strength by re-exposure for pointless reasons either, self-preservation is self-respect.

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