The Real Reason

I wish I could go to every single event from every area of my life but if I don't sleep enough already, I need my insomnia buffers, and I'm not able to switch contexts like everyone else and refocus easily (if at all) and it's going to cause major delays in the rest of my day. 💔

Because I don't want to depend on systems, become a h*e or a gold digger who marries for money like a leech: my ability to function is more important than fun, but even if I didn't work, I would still need those insomnia buffers. 

If someone who used to go to every event and be on every committee they could stops all of a sudden it could be because they've discovered what their diagnosis is really about and what their disability needs: it's nothing else.