Not Your Issue
As long as you do no harm in the process, you have every right to be your fullest expression and feel your absolute best because the right people are not going to have a problem with you being at your best because they're not going to expect you to be the hater-whisperer or to take care of their insecurities, as if those were your fault because they had those long before you came along.
Their haterism isn't your issue. Do not allow yourself to block your own blessings.