You don't need to change your core values just because someone has an issue with it (self-preservation is self-respect and it harms no one so let the boundary-haters hate all they want), the right ones resonate effortlessly.
It isn't logistically possible to know everyone, network with everyone, or do everything. Stick to the business you're in and in doing so, you're respecting your rightful bandwidth limits and not over-exerting yourself for takers and manipulators.
My digital products respect my mental bandwidth limits and requirement for time freedom, but I am upfront about it.
You can love something and still not have unlimited time, the balance sheet must make logical sense in terms of accounting for one's time each day.
You can love XYZ and still have time limits, you get to choose how/when you give back. ✨
The mental reset space (especially with health conditions) in your schedule that you are the one in charge of should be for things that replenish you... Forget the potential advancement or speculative ROI or who someone may know... You have no business without HEALTH first.
My focus circuit both when working and resting simply can't be broken unless it's from my own household, period. I do what I need to do to manage my disability. 🤷♀️
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]]>Firstly, bullies may struggle with low self-esteem or insecurity, despite their outwardly aggressive demeanor. When confronted with boundaries, it threatens their fragile sense of self-worth, leading them to perceive themselves as victims of unjust treatment.
Moreover, bullies may employ manipulation tactics to evade accountability for their actions. By assuming the role of the victim, they seek to deflect attention away from their wrongdoing and shift blame onto their targets. This tactic serves to garner sympathy and validation from others, further reinforcing their sense of victimhood.
Furthermore, societal attitudes towards victimhood play a significant role in enabling this behavior. In a culture that often glorifies victimhood and offers sympathy to those who claim victim status, bullies exploit this narrative to garner support and justify their actions. They capitalize on the empathy of others, painting themselves as misunderstood or unfairly treated individuals.
Additionally, bullies may lack empathy or insight into the impact of their behavior on others. Their distorted perception of reality leads them to believe that they are the ones being wronged when confronted with boundaries, further perpetuating their victim mentality.
Your boundaries are about your mental health oxygen mask, you are not responsible for anyone else's chosen reaction to how you safeguard your time and un-interrupted focus requirements as they aren't paying your bills/managing your household, only takers are mad you have lines. This is especially true when they're the only one who shows such disdain at your chosen and rightful limits around what belongs to you. 💯
Anyone who tries to make your boundaries or quietness (personal lines of basic self-respect and protection of your peace and mental health and time/punctuality) mean anything about them is making an issue out of nothing and is someone that you really need to stay away from.
Taking someone else's time or other limit as an insult is trying to make oneself central in the life of strangers for personal gain at the expense of their limited recharge time among a disability and many commitments on which we owe no explanations: entitled people are trouble.
Wanting to be left in peace and quiet in your own space is not a problem for grown and mature individuals who have no agendas!
We owe nothing to those who retaliate against normal boundaries, they're the rude and inconsiderate ones for trying to force others.
Get yourselves an easier target next time or find other options for entertainment, but my sacred privacy will not be mocked or bothered over entitled overgrown babies. Proximity doesn't warrant automatic trust, it is earned through respect. At this stage, truly, avoid me as much as possible as I have had enough time wasted, billable hours gone.
However, it's crucial to recognize that standing up to bullies and enforcing boundaries is essential for fostering healthy relationships and promoting personal well-being. By asserting boundaries, individuals assert their self-worth and protect themselves from further harm. It's essential to challenge the victim narrative that bullies construct and hold them accountable for their actions.
When you have a severe and debilitating ADHD disability with two businesses, you can tell me *how* to spend my personal un-interrupted consecutive unbroken recharge time. Those outside my household who don't pay my bills and do not even respect my time: I don't report to you.
What *no one* is going to do is make my daily life more difficult when I respect common safety watch, I stay in my lane, and I mind my own business and I don't go out of my way to bother those who do not bother me. NO ONE is going to force themselves into my life, seriously NO.
Needing noise-cancelling headphones in your own home and not being able to expect being left alone in your own private sanctuary away from the stressors of life (marked UNavailable time for those outside my household) is absolutely insane to me.
The recharge time should be consecutive unless it's from within our household. I don't remember signing up for unwanted roommates.
I am no longer offering consideration to the inconsiderate.
I should not have to worry about being bothered on my only day off every few weeks because a stranger feels entitled to my energy? Excuse me?
Feel free to monitor my schedule all you want or take turns:
I STILL do not owe anything to inconsiderate / bulldozing people who have made my daily life feel needlessly monitored for over a year.
You don't get to impose unwanted connections on me.
Try respecting disinterest.
Respect for privacy, safety, and common sense is really all we owe, but no one has any entitlement to my private time, sanctuary time while managing multiple businesses, and my personal information or resources. Trust is earned!
Seriously, no one has succeeded in wearing down my spam filter and guard. No one. Also, people being a good person doesn't mean I have to spend time I do not possess. I thought good people respected lines without acting offended or entitled?
Privacy is a healthy requirement and a healthy way of life for my disability under accommodation in ALL areas of life. Quiet is not rude, I didn't sign up for forced unwanted imposing connections with people 3x my age when this should be a safe escape from the stress of life.
If someone wants privacy, FIND OTHERS with the same needs, this isn't brain surgery. How is beating me to my destination and monitoring my laundry schedule going to change my disinterest? (This is lurker # 2)... Nope. Get yourselves a side hustle maybe? You chose the wrong one.
You can't demand automatic connections just because of proximity, that's not really how trust is built or earned. I just don't have the *time* I don't care how nice they are.
MANY people view home as a private sanctuary, we have rights to non-intrusion. I have a disability too.
Sneaky attempts to undermine my free choice gets you blocked in real life too. 🔥
Inconsideration gets you blocked IRL.
Anyone who doesn't respect your privacy is trying to put what they want from you ahead of your own wellness (your basic personal responsibility is your survival conditions), and take something from you at your own expense, which is crazy. I am not a walking opportunity. I have a life and obligations and I will not be ambushed.
You should be able to do your errands and do your laundry without being lurked or ambushed when that's your only quiet time between two businesses and a disability, I have no patience for intrusiveness. Read the room, the signs are clear, or is it that they want to wear you down?
I am responsible to maintain the conditions to my disability oxygen mask which includes designated quiet time, and my time belongs to me wherever I am, to remain as such. I do not go into quiet-time-debt for ambushers looking to take from me or use me at my expense.
Ambushers 100% want something from you. Period.
The most basic tenet of personal freedom, autonomy, and dignity is free choice over who we allow into our lives. Personalizing someone else's limits on time, energy, and so on is wild because that's forcing people to defend their ownership over what is under personal property.
Find yourselves someone dumb and naive to play with.
]]>Honoring your needs and preferences involves a deep understanding of yourself, your values, and what brings you joy and fulfillment. It's about acknowledging your authentic desires and making choices that align with them, even if they may require stepping outside of your comfort zone at times. However, this doesn't mean forcing yourself into situations that are uncomfortable or detrimental to your well-being/mental health (the conditions to your ongoing functioning being compromised is not the same thing as trying new foods or new styles, for instance).
Self-awareness plays a crucial role in this process. By tuning into your emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations, you can gain valuable insights into what truly matters to you. This self-awareness allows you to distinguish between situations that genuinely challenge you in a positive way and those that simply trigger discomfort or anxiety without offering any real benefits.
Moreover, honoring your needs and preferences is also about recognizing your inherent rights as an individual. This includes the right to set boundaries, the right to pursue your passions and goals, and the right to prioritize self-care and well-being. When you honor these rights, you're not retreating into your comfort zone; instead, you're asserting your autonomy and taking ownership of your life.
Stepping out of your comfort zone can undoubtedly lead to growth and transformation if done for the right reasons, but it's essential to do so with intention and self-awareness and understand that a baseline of self-awareness can also provide as much ROI as adventure. By honoring your needs, preferences, and rights, you're not only fostering a deeper sense of self-awareness but also cultivating a life that is truly aligned with who you are and what you value.
So, embrace the journey of self-discovery, and remember that true growth often begins by honoring yourself and not necessarily “getting out of your comfort zone” as if comfort did not matter: it’s a solid foundation that can elevate wellness actually.
]]>I'm fiercely protective of the person I've become. It required significant mental, emotional, and spiritual effort to reach this point. So, if it seems like I hold myself to high standards with respect to what I partake in: be it people, situations, events, or conversations, it's because I do. I won't be fooled twice.
]]>Anyone outside of your household who wants to act victimized about your boundaries (when you don't even owe them what it is that they are looking to gain from you) is an emotional manipulator that needs a one-way ticket out of your life, you're a person with privacy rights.
Honour your mental shut-off time, you don't need to explain yourself to fools who are good at bulldozing cues and feigning ignorance.
Don't argue with stupid. Ignore stupid.
]]>While expanding our network can be enriching when it is consensual, it's essential to remain vigilant against those who feign concern to infiltrate our lives for their own agenda.
Here's why trusting our instincts and maintaining a small, authentic circle is crucial in safeguarding our well-being:
The Deception of Fake Concern:
There are individuals who cunningly disguise their ulterior motives under the guise of caring for our well-being. These people were not screened and even if deemed safe, they clearly didn't make it through my screening criteria!
The con-artists may send acquaintances our way, purportedly with our best interests at heart, but their true intention is to manipulate our choices and influence our decisions (try and make us redirect our path or become gold-diggers instead of working if that is our choice, for example). This insidious form of manipulation preys on vulnerability and trust, posing a significant threat to our autonomy and personal boundaries.
Trusting Our Instincts:
Our intuition serves as a powerful compass in navigating social dynamics. It's our internal alarm system, alerting us to potential threats and guiding us towards genuine connections. While it's natural to want to expand our social circles, it's equally important to heed the warning signs and trust our instincts when something feels amiss. Building relationships based on authenticity and mutual respect fosters a sense of security and belonging that cannot be replicated by superficial connections coerced by third-parties.
The Importance of Strong Boundaries:
Maintaining boundaries is paramount in protecting our emotional and mental well-being. We have the right to choose who enters our social sphere and who we allow into our personal lives.
A small, trusted circle of friends who respect our boundaries and support our growth is infinitely more valuable than a wide network of acquaintances driven by ulterior motives.
By setting clear boundaries and asserting our autonomy, we safeguard ourselves against manipulation and coercion.
Recognizing Red Flags:
It's crucial to remain vigilant for red flags indicative of manipulative behavior. Beware of individuals who push their agenda onto us, disregard our boundaries, or insist on controlling our decisions. Genuine concern for our well-being should never come at the expense of our autonomy or peace of mind. If something feels off, it's okay to step back and reassess the situation.
We *do not* owe anyone an unwanted interaction or connection! Proximity doesn't warrant trust if they're already messing with your boundaries. 💯💯💯
In a world where deception and manipulation lurk beneath the surface, cultivating discernment and prioritizing authentic connections are paramount. Trusting our instincts, setting boundaries, and surrounding ourselves with a small, trusted circle of friends empower us to navigate social dynamics with confidence and integrity.
Ultimately, it's up to us (human dignity and freedom of association) to decide who we allow into our lives and to recognize when someone's intentions may not align with our best interests.
Anyone who tries to control your personal life has an agenda.
]]>Embracing a Balanced Lifestyle:
Embracing physical fitness doesn’t necessitate a one-size-fits-all approach. Whether it's yoga, jogging, weightlifting, or team sports, finding an activity that resonates with individual preferences and needs is key. Moreover, incorporating mindfulness practices such as meditation or deep breathing exercises can further amplify the benefits of exercise, promoting mental clarity and relaxation.
When insomnia and ADHD can disrupt daily life, harnessing the power of physical fitness emerges as a beacon of hope. By embracing regular exercise, individuals can cultivate a harmonious relationship between mind and body, fostering better sleep hygiene, improved focus, and enhanced overall well-being. So, lace up those sneakers, roll out the yoga mat, and embark on a journey towards a more vibrant, fulfilling life—one step, one breath, at a time.
Remember that proximity doesn't mean trust or entitlement to your time, energy, or private time! 🚩
However, protecting this time can sometimes be a challenge, especially when others attempt to encroach upon it. It's important to remember that it is not anyone's right to disrupt our moments of recharge. Whether intentional or not, those who disregard our boundaries may hinder our ability to fully recuperate and recharge.
Those who respect your boundaries understand the importance of self-care and understand that everyone needs time to recharge. On the other hand, individuals who persistently infringe upon your personal time may have ulterior motives. They might seek to gain something from you or use you for their own benefit (at your expense). In such cases, it's crucial to assert your boundaries firmly and unapologetically.
Remember, you are not responsible for the feelings of those who are offended by your boundaries, especially if they are not your dependents. You have the right to choose how you allocate your time and energy, as well as your availability to others. Setting boundaries is not selfish; it's an act of self-preservation and self-respect.
In essence, protecting your time for mental recharge time is essential for maintaining your well-being and overall happiness. Whether it's at the gym, at home, or anywhere else you find solace, prioritize these moments and defend them fiercely. By doing so, you'll not only honor yourself but also cultivate a greater sense of balance and fulfillment in your life.
Consuming someone's content does not entitle you to a place in their personal life or demand their time outside of their online presence.
Furthermore, respecting the limits of a public figure's availability is paramount.
While they may interact with fans through social media, it's unreasonable/unrealistic to expect constant access to their time and attention.
Everyone deserves time for themselves, away from the spotlight, to recharge and prioritize their mental health.
Unfortunately, some individuals cross the line from being enthusiastic fans to becoming invasive and even dangerous.
Stalking or violating someone's privacy is never acceptable, regardless of their public status. Public figures have the right to feel safe and secure in their daily lives, just like anyone else, and it's our responsibility as fans to respect those boundaries.
In essence, while it's natural to feel a connection to public figures and online personalities, it's essential to maintain perspective and respect their privacy. They are entitled to their personal lives and downtime, just like anyone else.
By respecting their boundaries and understanding the difference between a parasocial relationship and genuine IRL connection, we can ensure a healthy and respectful relationship with those we admire.
Let's appreciate their online content online without overstepping into their private lives.
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I don't even move my insomnia buffers for people I actually like, much less haters of healthy boundaries.
Your method of "showing up" and the limits of your availability (content and the digital products themselves) will be respected by those meant to resonate with you.
Switching your brain off as-needed is self-respect and being cognizant of your humanity, not a reflection of your like or dislike of your craft/business. The more you self-care: the better your results and I am glad I finally learned this.
Own your enough-ness!
]]>Did they think I was going to play into their hands and allow them to chase me off my square because they'd rather be around other mischievous drunkards with no ambition?
Handle storms like a gangster and go cry about it later, process your emotions in a specific daily time-slot and understand that demons/dark forces are inescapable. Don't be a victim even if they tried to victimize you on any level, dominate the storm and torch the challenges. 🔥
Keep your eyes on the prize, you're here to get to your goals not win over hater-idiot-bots.
Resilience is choosing to feel empowered by anything designed to destroy your drive and will power, no one attacks someone who is a nobody going nowhere, so I am flattered.
]]>It's as if the mere presence of someone who doesn't feel pressured to fit in with just anybody or people who don't give them good vibes (just based on proximity or convenience) challenges their worldview (instead of just being comfortable enough in their own skin to live and let live - like any mentally mature person would).
The root of this phenomenon lies in the insecurity and desperation to fit in that plagues many individuals.
When faced with someone who exhibits a carefree attitude and doesn't seek validation or approval from others, it can be unsettling for those who rely on external affirmation for their self-worth (but they do not have the right to make it your problem, it's a "them" problem if they're bothered by law-abiding people who are merely functioning differently and trusting their instincts about who to stay away from).
Seeing someone who isn't swayed by external pressures may serve as a mirror reflecting their own insecurities and shortcomings, prompting feelings of discomfort or even resentment.
Moreover, the external expectation to conform with various arbitrarily formed fake groups and the fear of being judged can drive individuals to lash out against those who choose to live differently.
People who mind their own business often serve as a reminder of the freedom and autonomy that others may feel they lack.
Consequently, rather than introspecting and addressing their own insecurities, some individuals resort to criticizing or harassing those who embody independence and non-conformity.
Furthermore, the same individuals who exhibit obnoxious behavior often demonstrate a disregard for privacy and personal boundaries.
They may invade others' personal space, share sensitive information without consent, or engage in gossip and nosiness.
Paradoxically, while they flout boundaries themselves, they feel threatened by individuals who enforce boundaries and prioritize their privacy.
Respecting/giving people personal space and minding one's own business (unless invited not to) are fundamental aspects of social etiquette, dignity, and basic human decency (imposing oneself on others destroys their free will to choose who they allow into their life on a closer level which is basic personal freedom/autonomy/humanity).
Yet, for some, these concepts seem foreign or even threatening.
Instead of appreciating the diversity of perspectives and lifestyles, they perceive differences as a challenge to their own beliefs and values (they lash out like little demons).
It's important to recognize that everyone has the right to live according to their own principles and preferences without facing undue scrutiny or harassment. Just as individuals have the freedom to express themselves openly, they also have the right to maintain their privacy and autonomy.
Understanding and respecting these boundaries is essential for fostering a more inclusive and tolerant society (neurodiversity).
In conclusion, the paradox of being obnoxious lies in the discomfort and insecurity experienced by some individuals when confronted with those who mind their own business.
Rather than embracing diversity and autonomy, they feel threatened by individuals who choose to live authentically and independently.
By promoting a culture of acceptance and mutual respect, we can create a society where everyone feels valued and free to be themselves without fear of judgment or harassment.
]]>🚩 Smear campaigns are a curated/designed strategy to cover up something they should not have done to begin with. Nothing scares me anymore though. Of course, I protect myself, but they'll be exhausted by the end of this because I have more stamina than all their groups combined. 🚩
I keep a SMALL circle for a reason, who is the lunatic who thought I was thirsty enough to allow random people in who set off my instincts and alarm bells? 🕵️
They tried to outsource their dirty work to exes, ex jealous friends, haters, new fake attempted friends and so on. All to distract and destroy me while hiding their hands. True care respects time and boundaries which is why I had discernment against all the opps/snakes that were intrusive and aggressive (even the nice ones had palpable fakeness).
It could have been an attempt to distract and destroy so that you run back to them (group 1) and then an all-out underhanded war to distract your focus to make it seem like you can't handle anything (group 2). It failed and it will backfire so hard they'll be the ones crying.
Attacking my online name and platform indirectly is a form of trying to silence me, who is big mad that they did something worth silencing me about in the first place? Maybe think twice before playing with the wrong people and you wouldn't need to go on smear campaigns? 🤔
Ethical people don't go on all out underhanded wars against any target (online or IRL) because they are not hellbent on hiding any truth as they don't do shady things that they try to cover up by trying to create a situation where it looks like you wiped yourself out on your own.
Now I have a reason to declare a war so if they do not back down, I will take it all the way to every media outlet in the USA and Canada, stop being shady and you’ll have nothing to worry about!
If they don't want damage control, they can try to refrain from doing damage, stay on the correct side of the law and find other ways to boost your ego than bothering people who don't bother you or trying to destroy their name/brand?
My silence costs a lot of money and the investigation from every angle is only just starting, they asked for it by doing what they did unprovoked.
Wasting hours of my day for a whole year is unacceptable, it having now stopped doesn't change that it happened in the first place. I do not care if it stopped, no one misuses my name.
Every supplier, every bank, everyone possible is fully aware of all of the attacks they've tried on me but the real kicker is that some of these people tried to mess with my stable and hard-earned foundations in life, but it will never work. It clarifies that it was the right decision to remove myself from their ownership-over-real-relationship mentality!
It's delusional to think I'm going to let some random stranger run up in my life, destroy my gym time, irritate my last nerve while I'm trying to relax, and that they're somehow going to get personal information from me by this or any dumb, tired, poorly executed approach.
They were so hell-bent on trying to get my private information within like five minutes of meeting me, and they were so aggressive and they were so scripted like they were trying to use words that would trigger me and send a message along in a manner that was weird…
Anyone who is genuinely trying to befriend me is not going to do it during my personal private time and they're going to come correct because if you did your research on me, you would know not to bother me during my gym time. That means the aggressive people were not genuine and they were visibly scripted and were clearly watching my schedule too closely which means they had an agenda.
Like, irritating my nerves when I'm in a segment of my life that is designated relaxation time is not going to get you anywhere with me except blocked! I don't offer a better time as a consolation prize to anyone who doesn't respect cues or come correct. 🚩🚩🚩
The sanctity of my gym time is heavily advertised, clearly those weird and scripted infiltrators didn’t do their research. We don’t all want the same things! I don’t tolerate forced connections, not even for a second. Get your agendas out of my aura.
I'm just amused by the fact that they didn't think I would pick up on it, there's a few codes you can put into your keypad to figure out which parts of your phone are being hacked and when. It's not hard.
Did they think stealing my name was going to make me cry like a little dummy and stop my whole hustle? i'm honestly just irritated at how much time I wasted on cleaning it up and then the other people's time who helped me that was wasted, that's all.
I spent at least 30 minutes per day cleaning up the identity theft for an entire year, that's what I'm pissed off about, I don't care about what they did, that's going to come back to them tenfold and I don't have to do anything. All I did was report it to the authorities.
The funniest part was when they were controlling my phone remotely and messing with my Twitter, it was freaky, but I am too gangster to let anyone take me down especially now that I have a list of suspects and this all confirms WHY some relationships needed to STAY ended.
Disrupting the *conditions* to my disability oxygen mask was going to work HOW? These people are straight up dumb as bricks and need to manage their envy in a healthier manner and back tf up off of me with their third party monitoring schemes.
This has *nothing* to do with care as the people they sent who were aggressive and persistent in trying to invade my private life were looking to cause trouble for me as the orchestrator must have found a lie to perpetuate for this to happen from both online and IRL angles for over a year.
Caring people respect my free choice on who I allow into my gated life and how I spend my mental recharge time which I need a lot of due to introversion and ADHD!
Those who engage in such deceitful acts often do so out of envy or resentment towards the happiness or success of others. Unable to cope with their own insecurities, they seek solace in tearing down those who have achieved what they desire. However, what they fail to understand is that their actions will inevitably catch up with them.
Creating fake narratives and orchestrating invasive measures to disrupt someone's life is akin to playing with fire.
The reaction of the IRL stalkers to my camera system revealed a lot about my suspicions!
I am fire so there was no way their stupid ploys were going to work, I earned everything I have in my life and no one is going to knock me off my path.
No one.
They will knock themselves down on their own trying to come at me.
My PI is on speed dial so back off or get exposed via every media channel possible. I am not kidding.
Sooner or later, the truth will surface, and the consequences will be severe.
Somehow it’s acceptable to attempt to destroy people’s brand and mind because it stopped? That’s a massive cop-out and a very stupid mindset that seems to defend wrongdoings that were unprovoked. Oh it’s getting investigated as we speak. I will ensure they think twice next time.
Trying to infiltrate the life of someone you already know keeps a very small (by choice) and well-vetted circle is the dumbest thing you can possibly spend your time on. 🤡
Oh and the other group who thought that trying to destroy me would have me cry and run back to them, I will put a restraining order on every last person whose name comes up in the investigation, back up off of me, this showed possessiveness (lack of respect for human autonomy and boundaries) not respect/honour which is what genuine care is about.
I was nowhere in their grasp or reach so they had to send a third-party slew of weird stalkers my way and risk endangering my safety in the process since they didn't screen losers willing to do this properly? Holy sh*t that's disgusting, but it confirms why I left to begin with. 🤷♀️
Trust shattered, relationships ruined, and reputations tarnished—these are just a few of the repercussions awaiting those who engage in such deceitful behavior.
Moreover, the ripple effects of such actions extend far beyond the initial target. Innocent bystanders may also suffer collateral damage as a result of false accusations and invasive scrutiny.
Ultimately, those who resort to lies and manipulation to sow discord in the lives of others are only fuelling their own demise. Karma has a way of balancing the scales, and what goes around, inevitably comes back around. Instead of succumbing to the temptation of deceit, let us strive to uplift people or get out of their way.
Having people monitor the target is different than personal safety measures.
What I appreciate is that throughout at all, other people were more protective over me than I was to myself and that's such a cool feeling... I knew I would heal and I know I was always protected.
I did enough to protect myself now, so revealing to me who is the main orchestrator(s) will be up to God's timing unless they try something else, at which point, they'll be faced with whatever is needed to get them off of me.
They must have measured me agains their lower level of tolerance for stress and attacks from all angles, they should have done their research as these dummies are going to end up deteriorating while the arrows return to sender as usual.
There could be multiple people, but I know that at least one of them is someone that I'm no longer in touch with, and that is so obvious and palpable by some of the things I have seen in the past year... 🪃🪃🪃
Invading the privacy of individuals who are no longer part of your life or in a relationship with you is not only possessive but also deeply disturbing and unethical. Such behavior reveals a lack of respect for personal boundaries and autonomy, indicating an unhealthy sense of ownership and control. It's crucial to recognize that allowing such individuals back into your life only perpetuates toxicity and manipulation.
Regardless of any past good deeds and how good it may have been at some point, their inability to respect your decisions and autonomy demonstrates their true intentions.
You can be grateful for the good they may have done for you at some point (before they switched up), but also, not be obligated to stay in relationships that no longer were healthy...
Speaking my truth to some appears to have provoked them, but that's still not a good excuse to continuously try to target me online and in real life for over a year, do they not think I was documenting the whole time?
Decisions to leave relationships are rarely impulsive and are often the result of significant reflection and consideration. Trusting individuals who exhibit possessive and controlling behaviours is a recipe for further harm and should be avoided at all costs.
They do not respect your decision to distance yourself, then they do not respect your autonomy/space and free will so why would you want relationships like that?
Those are also people who were never happy for me.
They either want to be forced to leave me alone or they will do it on their own accord, I hope that they will choose the least legally costly approach for their own sake because going to war with me out of envy/covering their own skeletons is never a good idea.
Why shouldn't I speak up about why I left some past relationships when they're the ones who started this whole stalking campaign against me? I wouldn't defend myself if I didn't have a reason to. But now it's restraining order time for those who choose not to back off.
Healing just means no longer carrying the pain, but it doesn't mean losing the lessons and it does not mean going backwards either. Healing doesn't obligate reconciliation either.
There are plenty of other things they could have done instead of illegally monitor my phone, try to fabricate situations they thought would trigger me, try to use fake friends to infiltrate my life, and bribe/hire third-party stalkers through lies to convince them.
No, those are not people worried about me, those are people hell-bent on trying to destroy me and would go to any length to do so whether it's online or sending people my way in real life to do crazy stuff.
Now with their lame "woe is me" excuses and supposedly not knowing better, that's real dumb, all they need to do is stay far away from me and we won't have any problems but that level of lunacy is not allowed in my life.
Some people try to figure out your business so they can stop it or block it, it has nothing to do with the level of care they have for you (they will feign sincerity, but genuine care is not intrusive or nosey, so that's how you discern between fake and genuine). Genuine care still gives people their privacy, space, and dignity to choose what they share: it is never coercive or forceful (that shows an agenda).
A miserable person will see you happier and breathing fresher air and go out of their way to try and make you backtrack, fall, or stumble (instead of heal themselves and work on themselves due to their lack of self-awareness and ability to mind their own business).
And...
When weirdos didn't easily back off, I knew something shady was up!
It is embarrassing when they think they can coerce me back into a relationship that I don't want. It looks like they didn't heal their manipulative and sheisty jealous/controlling tendencies!
Watch them start popping up out of nowhere fakely asking me "how are you" or "I miss you"or to forgive them. It's like no just don't waste my time. I don't have spare time on top of cleaning the messes they fabricated. All they have to do is stay away from me. Is that unclear?
I don't have time to sit down with everyone I have forgiven, especially that they are the ones who did something unprovoked, they should go sit down with themselves and stop wasting my time...
It takes a sick kind of obsession to keep trying to go out of your way to block, distract, sidetrack, destroy, and recuit others to derail someone who is not bothering you and has done nothing to you (not even taking any kind of revenge on you). Please get help. It's quite deranged.
All it showed is the amount of people who are willing to protect me, which is fantastic.
They should be very worried about their karma.
]]>It's not very popular to promote the concept of sustainability, but I don't care.
A stable foundation seems unpopular in the "comfort zones are evil" mentality era, but how do you expect to achieve long-term goals without a sustainable base? Play with businesses, travel, go on adventures outside of that but understand that peace removes desperate decisions.
]]>I don't inconvenience myself, or uproot myself because of the insecurities of cowards who wanted to come at me for an entire year, but what I can do is expose them publicly in a manner that's going to completely annihilate every last ounce of audacity they have.
Nobody tries to uproot my life because of their insecurities or over something I do not even owe them.
I have every right to what I have earned - did they think I would quit my own brand over them misusing my name?
Not even a scratch on my health throughout all of this, because these were the mental muscles that were under-developed before. I am just irked that I had to waste my time and that of many others to clean it up.
I have yet to meet a person or a group of people who have tried to destroy me who didn't end up destroying themselves in the process so whoever thinks that they're an exception to this is going to have some serious lifetime karmic consequences that I won't even have to lift a finger in order to deliver, and that's the beauty of having divine protection on my life. I'm not responsible for the issues or insecurities of others and I'm not going to have anybody make it my problem.
]]>I am not most people, so I don't crumble like most people. I thought that was clear by now. I may cry, I may throw up, but I won't be dormant for too long!
All they did was ignite my inner beast and create a walking storm, in the best possible way.
Any delay is being repaid by an exponential inner fire that the most creative stumbling block creators (online identity thieves or other stupid attempts) can't destroy, I am genuinely flattered that stopping me was their mission in life! Reality check, IT DIDN'T WORK.
I did not even know that I had this level of stress tolerance before, this is cool. I enjoy it. Bring it on.
You can't be weak-minded and allow any form of attack or spiritual warfare to sway you from your goals because then: where in life are you going to go where there are no insecure/immature individuals who try to break others down? They are everywhere. You build mental fortitude.
I am so surprised at my level of overall tolerance for the insanity that has been going on for over a year, and I am so proud of myself because now I KNOW my power. Thank you to the gremlins who contributed to my emotional level-up, you are so appreciated.
Yes, I cried about it, but I got right back up.
In comes down to ensuring that inconsequential fools remain inconsequential in terms of the effect that they have on what's important to you in your life and obviously engaging in heavy self-protection from every angle but all in all, I'm really proud of myself.
If I would have crumbled over identity theft, slander, and being attacked from every angle including IRL, it would have meant I wasn't ready for mental expansion/what my future holds, but I am ready as I've ever been, bring it!
Your business and your overall intelligence brought towards your craft is not going to expand if you're easily taken down. Obviously, you should respect your limits, but I mean overall strength needs to be tested in order to be validated and built back up even stronger.
I really don't think anything is going to be able to knock me off my path at this point. They're going to knock themselves out trying to knock me out.
Not even a scratch on my health throughout all of this, because these were the mental muscles that were under-developed before. I am just irked that I had to waste my time and that of many others to clean it up.
I am not interested in "apologies" from anyone who took control of my phone remotely or sent third-parties my way, you've wasted enough of my time, all I want is for them to not contact me and live a good/healed life where they manage their controlling/ownership-over tendencies.
“Respect your haters, they’re the only ones who think you’re better than them.” – Nicki Minaj
]]>Personalizing the boundaries of others is the number one trait of an adult-child.
Wish them well! But don't play in their mud.
]]>Living with a disability can present unique challenges, but it should never be a barrier to pursuing meaningful work. In fact, for many individuals, maintaining employment not only provides financial stability but also fosters personal growth, enhances marketability, and contributes to overall well-being. In this blog post, we'll explore why it's important to keep working if you're able to, despite facing physical or cognitive limitations.
Entrepreneurship can blur the lines between work and personal life, leading to an imbalance that exacerbates ADHD symptoms. Stable employment typically offers more predictable work hours, allowing individuals to maintain a healthier work-life balance and prevent burnout. I prefer my business on the side and fully digitized.
Financial Independence and Improved Quality of Life:
While disability insurance and other support programs can provide essential assistance, relying solely on these resources can often lead to a limited quality of life and being forced to live in dangerous conditions and parts of town!
Money can buy safety and security, there is nothing humble or noble by tricking people out of wanting the best that life has to offer and not have to struggle for basic necessities.
By actively engaging in the workforce, individuals with disabilities have the opportunity to earn a *livable* wage, affording them greater financial independence and the ability to live in more safe neighborhoods.
This financial stability opens doors to better healthcare, improved housing options, and increased access to recreational and leisure activities.
One reason I believe people with disabilities capable of working should do so is because if I were on disability insurance, they would subtract the income from my additional jobs, preventing any financial progress and perpetuating dependency. Autonomy is crucial to me, and I refuse to rely on a system that limits my income indefinitely, hindering my ability to build security. This arrangement seems unjust and stifling, reducing individuals to a state of limited progress and meagre rewards.
Enhanced Marketability and Skill Development:
Remaining active in the workforce also enhances one's marketability and opens doors to various career advancement opportunities. Each job undertaken adds to a person's skill set and professional experience, making them more attractive to potential employers. Additionally, maintaining employment demonstrates resilience, adaptability, and a strong work ethic – qualities that are highly valued in any industry.
Fostering Personal Growth and Well-Being:
For individuals with disabilities, staying busy and engaged can have profound benefits on mental and emotional well-being. Many people with conditions such as ADHD thrive when they have structured activities and tasks to focus on. Work provides a sense of purpose, structure, and accomplishment, which can significantly improve self-esteem and confidence.
Utilizing Different Parts of the Brain:
One compelling reason why some individuals choose to pursue multiple jobs, as mentioned by some with ADHD, is the opportunity to engage different parts of the brain. Variety in tasks and environments can help mitigate boredom and prevent burnout, which is particularly beneficial for those with attention-related conditions. By diversifying their work responsibilities, individuals can leverage their strengths and maintain focus, leading to greater productivity and job satisfaction.
In essence, maintaining employment while living with a disability offers numerous benefits beyond just financial security. From enhanced marketability and skill development to fostering personal growth and well-being, work plays a pivotal role in enabling individuals to lead fulfilling lives.
By embracing the opportunities that come with employment, people with disabilities can break free from the constraints of relying solely on meagre support programs and instead, carve their path towards independence, success, and overall happiness.
]]>Trusting your instincts is very important.
Screening People: The Importance of Due Diligence
Before granting someone entry into your life or business, it's crucial to conduct thorough screening. This involves assessing their character, intentions, and compatibility with your values and goals. Just as a job applicant undergoes a rigorous interview process, potential relationships and partnerships should be subjected to a similar level of scrutiny.
Boundaries as Personal Responsibility
Contrary to popular belief, setting boundaries is not selfish; it's an act of personal responsibility. By delineating what is acceptable and what is not, you are taking ownership of your well-being and protecting what you value most. Boundaries serve as a line of defense against manipulation, exploitation, and emotional harm. This is not the same as taking from anyone else, or infringing on their rights, guarding your property lines is a basic, right and dignity is part of humanity and you're a human that has rights.
Upholding the Sanctity of Self
Trust is earned through actions, not words, and boundaries serve as a shield against the encroachment of external forces. Gating your life and screening those who enter is not about exclusion; it's about preserving the integrity of your inner sanctum and safeguarding what you hold dear. Your space is not a public space, your space belongs to you. Remember, boundaries are not selfish; they are a symbol of personal responsibility and self-respect. So, stand firm in your convictions, and let trust be a currency earned, not freely given.
And based on recent events and a combination of f***ery leading up to this post, I made the right decisions and this all confirmed why I wanted to 100% provide for myself, secure my livelihood, secure my ability to self-sustain as best as I can so I never have to depend on people who - while they did a lot for me - switched up on me when I healed and nothing I did was ever enough, yet I literally worked full-time while studying full-time as I had no one to depend on that much anyway.
I did not pause to "process" anything before now so I almost threw up just connecting the dots, but this 100% hammers the door shut with bricks and bouncers because there's no more being on the fence. "Trust yourself" plays a huge part and there's nothing more vile to me than violating my privacy and having it be enabled through fabricated smear campaigns.
Zen is another type of strength especially in circumstances carefully designed to take you down.
Once again, it did the opposite.
I cried, I threw up, then I channelled my inner gangster and went to lift some weights to make it f*ing clear that no one can crush my spirit.
Who the heck has the energy and time to hijack my phone, take control of my keyboard and camera and mess with my accounts? That's not care and concern, that's possession, control, and inability to take a loss and frankly. I have software confirming the extent of the hacking.
They used spyware, but I bought counter-protective software right on time to block them from every angle.
These dummies straight up deleted some blog posts, cancelled some of my bill payments, took over some of my home cameras via WIFI, I obviously change my passwords often now. But it's interesting to learn all their tricks so as to have safety protocols in place.
I don't think that anybody who tries to taint other people's opinion of you and betray you on such a deep level has any care and concern for you, there was an agenda attached to this, and it was not for my good. More confirmation that those endings of past relationships were needed.
For those of them that didn't necessarily do anything wrong, maybe they were just inconsistent throughout my life (fly in fly out as they pleased and that's not healthy either), and they never established their rightful place permanently (except when it was convenient for them) so I have the right to prioritize my own convenience now.
They do just enough to make it barely legal, but they won't necessarily do more than that because they don't want to go to jail so they will try to tip toe on the fine line and make you completely crazy trying to figure it out but I'm pleased to say that it didn't work.
It is kind of unfortunate that there is evil in the world, and we can't just be stupid and pretend that it doesn't exist, we have to proactively protect ourselves, while also not playing into their hands by giving them the reaction that they want.
It is also important to understand that someone does not have to be a bad person with a bad heart for you to need protection from them, it could just simply not be a match or be misaligned or be unhealthy for you, and that's perfectly OK.
There was a nice little selection of people who came at me with such intensity and tried to ask very pointed questions and would not back up off of me over an entire year, and it didn't make sense, and they were looking for specific information. What's unacceptable is to try to pry your way into someone's life and hire third parties to get information, I just did not want to think level of privacy invasion (personal monitoring) this was real. I wasn't capturing dates and times for oddities because I was just too busy trying to live my life and hustle, but my intuition guided me away from connecting with certain persistent people (strangers) from various angles of my life, and I could not be more grateful.
If they were a genuine fan and a genuine person, they would not have come at me during the times in my life there are designated as private with such intensity unless they wanted something and asked such pointed questions that were so scripted...
Do I need therapy for choosing to remove myself from people that were not healthy for me any longer (on some level) and trusting my intuition or do they need therapy for not understanding and respecting my decision? I needed therapy to heal, but healing doesn't mean going back.
I do think that it would take a special kind of stupid to believe that someone chose to walk away from quite a few people for no reason, as if it wasn't a mutual decision on some level... I can't see how any of it was a surprise and if so, their self-awareness must be low.
I try to limit my research on this to like one hour per week because this does not pay me or add revenue to my business but at least it entertains people and it entertains me because it's quite interesting how much they've put in to try to destroy me for a whole year...
I do think that the online hacking and identity theft is a different group of people than those who motivated people to come at me in real life, but there could be linkages, and the more information I find, the more interesting it gets.
I'm not going back to ex friends or exes or anyone really, I'm not going backwards, I'm moving forward. People have to accept it.
It is just common sense to avoid people who are connected to past people because otherwise, they still have access to your life and they can try to control you through them.
To me, forgiveness is a sense of inner peace and confidence with the choices we have made in life in terms of who to surround ourselves with, we don't have to go back to prove our forgiveness to anybody and it's OK.
]]>Those who did what they did : malware on my phone, identity theft, sent fake "friends" who asked pointed questions with such *abnormal* insistence on infiltrating my life (sustained persistence despite my ongoing disinterest which doesn't need to be expressed verbally if you do not feel safe to do so in order to be valid), they hacked my banking, my socials, my Shopify blog post about disabilities, remotely monitored my phone, and so on. They probably could not survive it for a day! I did for a YEAR.
Let's not forget the hard-to-prove slashing of dog leashes at my door and angry tantrums of door slamming because I chose, as a dignified autonomous being, to keep my distance from certain people due to my busy schedule and discomfort.
Anything to distract hardworking people from pursuing their dreams.
I waited a while before speaking up because I needed to confirm my suspicions.
It could be separate groups of haters for the online vs. IRL bullshit, some mad that I left them, some who are just envious or hateful/bitter with themselves and seeking a target for their projections and self-hatred...
What happens when they can't handle the illogical/heavy and fabricated pressure cooker storm of anxiety they put on you without good reasons (just hate) in a well-planned manner, why can't they take what they laid out so nicely for you when karma dishes it back with a big bow?
Yes, I have suffered enough, but no, I am not a victim, I am too gangster for that, but my level of gangster is *zen master* who isn't going to lift a finger except increasing security measures on all angles and allowing karma to teach these people what happens when you bother people who don't bother no one, while I hold my businesses together.
I have been attacked online from
every angle and in subtle ways IRL, I am a storm when I am healthy so no storm they try to fabricate will work (since they have to try to incapacitate me to attack me a as a gang as I am stronger by myself than an army of them, I'm flattered).
Non-reactivity when they're waiting for you to react is a form of ensuring you do not cave and try appease them. Managing your health is the right answer. Not giving in because they're attacking is also ideal - they should not be attacking and it's not up to you to cave in to stop them (it's how they punish people's boundaries).
They'll fall into the pit they dug for you and life will drag them as karmic forces intervene.
They will be weakened by their efforts, while I continue to hustle. Besides, silence is the best response to a fool who would not be capable of being reasoned with if they're acting foolish to begin with. I am not the hater-educator.
I fight differently.
]]>It's unlikely they seek open, honest discussion; rather, they aim to provoke negative emotions.
Giving any attention to individuals who thrive on negativity only satisfies their desires without yielding any useful outcome for you. They've already labeled you as their adversary, fueled by rumors, thrill-seeking behavior, and conformity to group mentality.
Disregarding signals is rude. Boundaries around your space, time, and attention are not rude.
Deliberately bulldozing or trying underhanded tactics and playing them off as "oops I did not know" over a sustained period of time to force yourself into my life against my free will or that of others is rude.
They ganged up on the target (me and probably others too!) because they just want more sketchy people to move in and remove those who don't fit with their sketchy a** selves. Let them be big mad as I'm not going nowhere before I'm ready. More dog leash slashing would flatter me.
🧿 Lack of interest does not need to be stated verbally for it to be understood, there are bulldozers who will act like they don't know better, but they knew better, they were just trying to pressurize and dismantle my free will (try to wear me down), but now karma is on it. They also did it to others. 🧿
Must be reasons why unsavoury and suspicious looking individuals are always on this floor. I can only imagine what is attracting them here. Some sort of high-foot-traffic enterprise? Is that why they were mad that I have a door camera? Keeping my distance was always the solution.
Boundaries only start sh*t when you're dealing with a bully and a manipulator, remember that.
Theres is nothing nice and sweet about people trying to bulldoze their way into their life and manipulate and con you into unwanted connections that don't feel safe from the onset. Trust your instincts with these types of sneaky weirdos. They are not for you if they feel icky. Both trust and benefit of the doubt are earned. And it doesn't come at the expense of your common sense and discernment!
Engaging them won't provide answers or halt their behavior. They're not open to reason, as their original actions stem from emotional immaturity and a willingness to harm others or get what they want at your expense.
Ultimately, their behavior isn't entirely their fault; they've been exploited by those who manipulate their limited intellect and intolerance to feel better about themselves.
Attempting to reason with them is futile, as those engaging in such activities lack rationality or have skewed moral compasses (they will make excuses for themselves all day).
Letting them continue their childish behavior is the best course of action as it is unlikely that they will harm you physically as long as you have your cameras up and PPE, as they're unlikely to change their ways regardless of what you say.
Stalkers typically see their targets as mere extensions of themselves, more like objects than individuals. This sets them apart from those who are merely curious. Persisting in such behavior for over a year, especially without any acknowledgment or response from the subject, suggests a deliberate motive rather than mere chance or happenstance.
You cannot talk any fool out of foolish behavior, but you can be strategic while refusing to cave with a reaction as their existing intimidation tactics and tantrums show that they're capable of escalating and twisting anything you say against you.
Was the incentive to keep tabs on me worth it? 👀 Who paid them to report on my movements like the FBI?
It looks like one of the chief ambushers who was big mad that I dared to be in a hurry in my daily life put their dog leash away and seem to have stopped slashing it at my door, did they get scared from my camera? Look who is laughing now. Get a life. 🤷♀️
Money by ethical means and doing ethical things for money is fine, incentive to harm is sociopathic.
I can re-ask the question once karmic forces are done with them. I don't explain, defend, or argue with fools who are already showing dangerous signs of ignorance.
You should *never* confront lurkers and stalkers or anyone who views you as someone with no basic human rights unless you're in danger as it can be turned against you; however, keep resisting the devil and keep protecting yourself (PPE). They wanted a reaction and got nothing.
There is nothing weak about taking the graceful approach!
Confronting a fool offers them an opportunity to get defensive and make excuses to justify their pattern of idiotic behaviour, self-protection is much smarter and better long-term thinking.
So, the next time you encounter someone who seems determined to bother you without cause or reason, remember: silence can be the most powerful response.
Save your energy for battles that truly matter, and let the fools argue amongst themselves in their echo chamber of ignorance because they’ll see it as an opportunity to justify their nonsense, find other ways to bother you, make excuses for themselves and so on.
You engaging - at all - gives them a way “in” to disrupt your peace even further.
There is no “safe” way to engage with fools. None!
Arguing with them is akin to shouting into the void; it accomplishes nothing but frustration, despair, and more stress.
Any existing intimidation tactic shows that they are craving a reaction from you, let them look stupid by giving them none.
You can't be weak-minded and allow any form of attack or spiritual warfare to sway you from your goals because then: where in life are you going to go where there are no insecure/immature individuals who try to break others down? They are everywhere. You build mental fortitude.
The good thing is that most are capable of minding their business and you can outlast the dummies.
Choosing to ignore such individuals is not a sign of weakness; rather, it's an act of self-preservation (while also taking self-protective measures). By refusing to engage, we are protecting our mental peace and emotional well-being. It's a conscious decision to invest our energy where it matters most, rather than squandering it on individuals who are not even worth a second thought.
Attacking those who are different stems from a lack of understanding and respect for human dignity and autonomy. People who intrude on others' lives without invitation and impose their views or actions are the ones with underlying issues.
It's not the individuals focused on their own responsibilities who are odd, but rather the minority disrupting their peace repeatedly. People juggling multiple jobs deserve the right to their own space and time without interference. 💯
Living nearby doesn't equate to deserving trust or resources; respect for security, shared space, and time is paramount. Those who can't offer this respect need to address their own shortcomings instead of targeting others for simply not conforming to their unwanted intrusion (an all out smear campaign and even things resembling attempted property damage).
To me, the norm is to respect people's time, not delay them, and understand that privacy is mostly what people pay for, unless you're invited into their space, stay in your lane. I don't have roommates, so I'm not going have strangers act like they are roommates and monitor/copy my schedule and wait for me at NIGHT! Why would I want to even engage at that point?
If they're not your roommate, your housemate, or your actual family, or from your household, they have no business personally monitoring your every move: in addition to your arrivals to try to force their way into your life after non-verbal signals of disinterest (safer). ⛔️
The lurking began June 2022 or 2023 so I don't know if that's significant for any reason and my recent threat of legal action sent them running like rats/roaches.
🚩 Seeking revenge because I did not tolerate being ambushed or having my day-to-day life delayed when I'm just trying to come in and out of my home to get in and out on time and people I do not know aka forceful strangers who live near me are waiting for me to get home after 11PM or trying to match their schedule to mine after I repeatedly changed mine? Were they trying to get a reaction to pin something on me? These people are not my roommates (and trying to force any level of intimacy straight out the gate is a red flag as it disregards personal space) and since they already do not grasp respect for privacy and the basics of mutual safety, they need to stay away from me because they did this for over a year and took turns! Leave people alone who wish to be left alone, stop making an issue out of nothing and taking boundaries personally like a child! 🚩
Entitled people demand the attention of strangers on demand (who cares where they’re headed and if it makes them late)... yet cause noise pollution, disrespect shared space, and cause safety concerns. ⛔️ 🤡
All because they want something that I did not give them, so they retaliated, get a life.
I don't think anybody not in my household has any business listening from my door latches and monitoring my comings and goings on any level, it's just disgusting. The lack of boundaries and respect for personal space was intense. I mean what kind of person decides that they can just insert themselves into your life without your permission?
Most people are OK with a smile and a wave (and naturally looking out for mutual safety, but these people will cause safety concerns and noise issues and miss the basics), but certain people want to invade your whole life and that's not for me.
1 Corinthians 5:11
"But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a one."
While investing in PPE and personal safety measures on every angle, I've come to the place where I know the truth will reveal itself at the right time and the karmic justice system will handle them better than I can. I think I have done all that I can. I no longer give any F's.
Now that doesn't mean that I'm not going to take it through the real legal system if there is a need, but I think the threat of doing so has made them scatter like little rats and roaches.
Those who don't have anything to do tend to interrupt those who have a lot to do and it's quite silly.
To go out of your way to bother people who don't bother you is insane to me.
Someone having an issue with your quiet demeanour is creating a problem where there is none, making someone else's energetic recharge requirements or busy schedule mean anything about themselves is a form of codependency that is unwarranted (not to be made into your problem).
They can just find other others similar to them and leave the private (smile/nod) ones alone on their sanctuary time.
Confidently focusing on your priorities isn't comparing, infringing, looking down on, or acting better than: it's literally a time management tactic.
Parasites in human form are best avoided because they have a tendency to exploit any opportunity given to them, often taking advantage of kindness and generosity.
Once they sense even a hint of compliance, they will push boundaries further, demanding more time, attention, and energy, often without reciprocation. Their sense of entitlement is staggering, and they won't hesitate to drain you dry if allowed.
Setting boundaries is ineffective with them, as they disregard them entirely, even from strangers. Imagining the consequences of letting such individuals into one's life is daunting, as they possess the capability to exhaust and manipulate without remorse. Hence, it's imperative to steer clear of their influence to safeguard one's well-being and sanity.
There's little point in confronting liars or debating with a brick wall. They'll only make excuses, drain your energy, and likely continue lying. It's best to ignore them for your own peace and protection, even if it takes longer to rid yourself of their presence.
I chose not to uproot my life over the mischief, and I was definitely being divinely protected and given all the resources and the means to purchase security systems and use other tactics. I wasn't going to go anywhere until I was ready.
Trusting your instincts holds paramount importance over relying on others' opinions about a person. Our instincts are honed by evolution to detect subtle cues and potential threats, serving as an invaluable guide in navigating relationships and situations. While proximity might suggest trustworthiness, it's not a guarantee of someone's intentions.
People may project a facade that conceals their true motives to lure you in, but our instincts often pierce through this veneer, alerting us to potential danger or deception.
Did the covert stalking campaign get them the desired results?
On my personal private time: I am a person with rights to un-bothered privacy, I keep to myself and while courtesy is expected, there are fools I feel are unsafe to engage with on any level.
In critical moments, following our instincts can be the difference between safety and harm, as they possess an innate ability to discern whether someone has our best interests at heart.
Benefit of the doubt doesn't mean engaging, it means not living in fear...
Basic personal autonomy/human free will/dignity is choosing who you want in your life, especially when you live in a less safe area! No one has a right to force themselves into your life. No one! Especially those bulldozers who disrespect personal dignity/who can't get the basics right either: no regard for time, space, privacy, property safety, and noise... But they can be counted on to monitor you! 👀
No regard means that they do evil/harmful things (or wish ill on others/bother people) without care for impact at the expense of others, but your personal boundaries don't infringe on their rights as you're a person, not an object for their consumption. Will they now try to turn the consequences of their actions onto you or take accountability like adults? It having stopped doesn't mean my Angels won't handle them.
Grown adults respect limits, timing, and self-preservation.
You do not need to dignify the fools who don't with any sort of explanation as they see through their own distorted filters and they will twist it to fit their narrative anyway.
Those who understand that the world of strangers doesn't revolve around them wouldn't take your boundaries personally, or make it mean anything about themselves in the first place...
So, prioritizing our instincts over external judgments empowers us to make decisions that safeguard our well-being and steer us away from potential pitfalls.
They transformed me into the human variation of a STORM. Oh well, they can go cry about failing to annihilate me in their little corner and think about the level of misery (and disdain for normal boundaries) that would lead anyone to gang up on one person.
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Here’s why lean operations are not just equipped to withstand stress tests but are positioned to thrive amidst them:
Efficiency in Resource Allocation: Lean operations prioritize the efficient allocation of resources, minimizing waste and optimizing processes through automation. By streamlining workflows and eliminating unnecessary steps, businesses can operate with leaner budgets and adapt more readily to fluctuations in demand or supply chain disruptions.
Agile Response to Market Dynamics: The flexibility inherent in lean operations allows businesses to swiftly respond to changing market dynamics. Whether facing sudden shifts in consumer preferences or unexpected industry disruptions, lean organizations can adjust their strategies and operations with agility, maintaining a competitive edge in turbulent times.
Continuous Improvement Mindset: Central to lean philosophy is the concept of continuous improvement, known as Kaizen. By fostering a culture of innovation and learning, lean organizations are constantly seeking ways to enhance efficiency, quality, and customer satisfaction. This relentless pursuit of improvement enables them to evolve and thrive in the face of adversity.
Focus on Customer Value: At the core of lean operations is a dedication to delivering value to customers while minimizing waste. By understanding and prioritizing customer needs, businesses can maintain customer loyalty and sustain long-term success, even during periods of economic uncertainty.
Empowered and Engaged Employees: Lean operations empower employees at all levels to contribute to process improvement and decision-making. By fostering a culture of empowerment and engagement, businesses can harness the collective expertise and creativity of their workforce, driving innovation and resilience from within.
It's not about slashing headcount, it is about using headcount for what requires human intervention and using AI for the remainder.
Adaptability to Change: Lean operations promote a mindset of adaptability and resilience, enabling businesses to thrive in volatile environments. By embracing change as a constant and leveraging lean principles to iterate and refine strategies, organizations can navigate through uncertainty with confidence and emerge stronger on the other side.
In conclusion, lean operations provide a robust framework for businesses to not only survive but thrive through any stress test. By embracing efficiency, agility, continuous improvement, and a customer-centric approach, lean organizations are well-equipped to weather storms and emerge stronger, more resilient, and more competitive in an ever-evolving marketplace.
Yet, for many individuals like myself, this journey is often met with unwarranted criticism and judgment.
Today, I want to shed light on why it's not okay to cast dirt on those who choose self-reliance (when possible) over dependency, and why the pursuit of financial independence should be celebrated, not condemned.
Choosing to build a stable financial foundation is not about avoiding relationships or devaluing partnership or caring only about money; rather, it's about ensuring that one has the means to support themselves, be responsible for their obligations, have self-respect, charge their worth, and contribute meaningfully to any relationship they choose to engage in (as opposed to making someone else responsible for our survival). Making our own money via ethical means doesn't infringe on anyone else!
It's about fostering an equal partnership based on mutual respect and support, rather than dependency.
Furthermore, the decision to secure one's future through hard work and dedication should be applauded, not criticized. Each individual has the right to determine their own path in life, free from the constraints of societal expectations or judgments. Whether it's through education, work, entrepreneurship, or any other means, the pursuit of financial independence is a testament to one's resilience and determination.
Moreover, it's crucial to acknowledge the underlying factors that may compel individuals to strive for self-reliance.
For many, the desire to break free from abusive relationships or unsafe living conditions is a driving force behind their pursuit of independence.
By working hard to build a future free from such circumstances, individuals are not only reclaiming their autonomy (oxygen mask) but also paving the way for a brighter and more secure future.
In a society that often glorifies dependence and privilege, it's easy to overlook the struggles and sacrifices made by those who choose to forge their own path. However, it's essential to recognize and uplift these individuals, celebrating their resilience and determination in the face of adversity.
So, the next time you encounter someone who is diligently working towards securing their future, refrain from throwing dirt and instead offer your support and encouragement.
After all, the choice to carve out your own destiny is a courageous act worthy of admiration, not condemnation.
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